In the first few years of university, I've noticed there are a couple of things you feel become challenged quite regularly. Of course, what is education if it doesn't make you second-guess your convictions. But seriously, I do think that it's completely normal and even healthy to revamp your opinions.
So my question to you all is:
What feelings, opinions, beliefs have you had challenged since you left high school?For me, I've definitely had to reevaluate the severity (or lack there of) of what some things mean. At the least, I've had to realize the different spectrum of values, etc, that other people have. This wasn't that big of an adjustment for me, as I've always tried to be aware of the fact, but it's still shocking, sometimes. The level of decency you can expect is pretty unpredictable.
Secondly, there's a lot of things I've studied that, admittedly, have put my faith in a potential bind. The thing I really struggle with, though, is that even when I manage to justify these things to myself, I still encounter a lot of flack over them. The evolution thing is a fun punching bag. Of course, I know that as a whole, the Christian community had all of this coming. We honestly don't deserve a proper hearing, since most of us don't really dole them out too often ourselves.
But I'm almost a little sick of being the punching bag. It's too easy to find the kid who can't prove his beliefs and throw them in his face. To be frank, the Christianity deal has the quandary of being almost entirely reliant on the principle of believing in something
in spite of being unable to prove it.
But, regardless, I've noticed that there is a completely justified view of Christians as closed-minded. If something jeopardizes the easy explanation of what we believe, we fight it. Be prepared to face the criticisms, work on them yourself, and accept that your rationalized answer will just be shot down anyway. Because that's the life, and if it was easy, there wouldn't really be an element of free will, would there. If someone offered you one thousand dollars or one dollar, is it really an exercise in free will to pick the thousand dollars? Technically, yes; but functionally, no.